Take a Deep Breath: Mindful Breathing for Mental and Physical Health

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When was the last time you actually stopped and examined the way you were breathing? ……That long ago, huh?

Why is breathing so important? Is there a proper way to breathe? What does taking deep breaths do to the brain and body? Can we change the way we breathe?

I don’t think many people, even those who are health conscious, really understand just how important breathing is, and how much we are actually limiting our breathing these days and causing harm to our mental, emotional and physical health because of it. I am hoping to take a little more in-depth look at what breathing is and how we can improve it for better health.

How Breathing Works:

Wait a minute…don’t we know how breathing works? After all, we all do it all day every day without even thinking about it. Well, that’s part of the problem. We don’t even think about it. Something that seems to be done so easily and without much thought…we tend to take for granted. Our body does it naturally, so we don’t even put any thought into how it does it. Nor do we truly understand just how important proper breathing is for our health. Yes, that’s right, breathing WRONG can hurt you!

Under normal circumstances, with the help of our diaphragm, we inhale to get oxygen and exhale to rid our body of carbon dioxide through the lungs.

But when we’re stressed, anxious or upset, the way we breathe changes. Instead of deep, lung-filling breaths, we start taking short, shallow breaths. Instead of our diaphragm doing the heavy lifting, we use our shoulders to inhale and exhale, which can make anxious feelings even worse. Using specific breathing techniques and breath control, however, means that you’re paying more attention to your breathing and being mindful about the way you breathe in and out.

 

Benefits of Mindful Breathing:

-Mental Clarity/Brain Health – Getting more, and better, oxygen to your brain is very beneficial to a healthy brain and clear mind. Mindful breathing switches on the parasympathetic nervous system, which calms the stress-inducing neurotransmitters, leading to relaxation and a quiet mind.

-Pain Relief – Have you ever thought about why we are told how to breathe when we are struggling with bad stomach pains, or when pregnant women are going through labor? When our bodies are in pain, our muscles tend to tighten up, which can often times make pain worse. Mindful breathing techniques can help to relax our muscles and ease the pain. We can stop fighting the pain (which really makes it worse) and start working with it.

-Heart Health – Practicing proper breathing techniques and exercises can help to lower blood pressure and promote cardiovascular health. In 2013 the American Heart Association recommended breathing exercises as another way (beyond medicine and diet) to control blood pressure.

-Better Posture – Poor posture is caused by a number of things, but it can also be linked to your breathing! The neck, back and chest muscles play a role in facilitating breathing in those with an under-functioning diaphragm. You may notice you start to sit or stand straighter as you learn to breath better. It leads to better movement, too, as muscle tension is reduced, and the weight on joints is more evenly distributed.

-Detoxification and a Better Immune System – Oxygen is essential to carry nutrients around our bodies. Proper breathing supports our lymphatic system, which is a very important part of cleansing the body of bacteria, viruses, and other potential health issues. If we don’t efficiently remove carbon dioxide through breathing, other organs must take over the task, causing additional stress and increasing our risk of illness.

-Stress/Anxiety – Have you ever found yourself taking a couple deep breaths when you are super tense, nervous or in a heated argument? Have you ever thought about doing that long term? When we’re stressed, our brain releases cortisol. Breathing deeply and mindfully, you are telling your brain to calm down and relax. Allowing more oxygen to enter our body it frees up pathways to remove the stress-hormone from our system. This results in deeper breathing, a slower heart rate and a sense of calm.

 

Types of Breathing Exercises:

-Pursed Lip Breathing – Pursed lip breathing is a technique that allows you to control your oxygenation and ventilation. When you purse your lips and draw out your exhalation, it stimulates the autonomic nervous system and promotes relaxation. It removes stale air that can become trapped in the lungs, and it decreases the amount of breaths you take in an effort to get enough oxygen.

  1. You want to release tension from your body. Sit up straight, relax your shoulders and release your tongue from the roof of your mouth.
  2. Inhale deeply through your nose for about 2 seconds.
  3. Purse your lips and breathe out slowly for about 5 seconds.

-Yoga Breathing – This technique is used for focus and relaxation. It sounds a little weird, but you’ll get the hang of it. And you can see why people do it to help focus on the present ­— it’s hard to think of anything else when you’re wondering which nostril is next!

  1. Start on the right side. Place your right thumb over your right nostril as you breathe in through the left nostril.
  2. Take your right ring finger and place it over your left nostril as you exhale from the right one.
  3. Leave your ring finger where it is over the left nostril and inhale from the left.
  4. Then switch to the right side. Put your thumb over the right nostril and exhale through the left.

-4-7-8 Breathing – This is proclaimed as one of the best techniques to help you get to sleep. Because you have 8 counts to let the breath out, you’re forced to slow down your breathing. This slows down the heart rate and helps you relax.

  1. Exhale through your mouth and then close it and inhale through your nose for 4 seconds.
  2. Hold the breath in for 7 seconds.
  3. Release it in 8 seconds, and repeat at least three times.

-Diaphragmatic Breathing – Also known as “rib cage breathing”, Diaphragmatic breathing is a type of deep breathing technique that uses the diaphragm, causing your lower torso to expand and then relax as air moves in and out of the lungs. Your belly moves during this breathing but your chest does not rise.

  1. Practice at first while laying down on your back with your knees bent.
  2. Put one hand on your chest and the other below your rib cage. This will allow you to feel your diaphragm as it moves with the breathing.
  3. Breathe in through your nose slowly, counting up to 10 if possible as you inhale. The hand on your chest should stay still, but you should feel the hand on your rib cage move as your diaphragm expands.
  4. Tighten your stomach muscles as you exhale through your mouth. Let your diaphragm relax. Try to fully breathe out (counting up to 10, if possible) before inhaling again.

-Breath Counting –  This is another technique for relaxation that will help to keep your mind from wandering too far. You’ll be surprised at how much concentration it will take to keep yourself on count.

  1. Sit comfortably with your eyes closed and take a few deep breaths, then settle into a pattern of “normal” breathing.
  2. When you exhale, count “one.” The next time, count “two.”
  3. Do this until you have exhaled and counted to five, then start the pattern over.

Emotional Health

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We are on a roller coaster of emotions!

Right now many of us have pretty high emotions and they seem to be falling on the negative side of the scale. We pack a ton of emotions into a small body: anger, disgust, happiness, excitement, nervousness, eagerness, sadness, worry, fear, stress, anxiousness…etc. And each one has an effect on our bodies…and minds…in a variety of ways we have never even thought about before.

In this life we are never going to be able to escape all the negative emotions and their effects, but we don’t have to be controlled by them or trapped by them for our entire lives.

What are Emotions?

If you want the technical definition… Emotions are instinctive states of mind or feelings that are derived from a person’s circumstances or relationships with others. They are stimulated by a movement of neurotransmitters in the brain in response to stimuli.

But…I think we can all agree that emotions are a bit more complicated than this definition. 😉 Though we don’t understand everything about them, we can dive in a little deeper and try to understand them a little more and how they impact our bodies, as well as our lives.

God designed us to have emotions, and I believe He wants us to use them correctly. Not be RULED by them…but do not ignore them, either.

How do they Affect our Health?

Emotions take a toll on our health, physically as well as mentally. And it can be for good or ill. Have you ever noticed a lack of appetite when you are nervous or stressed? Do you find yourself craving junk food when you are dealing with grief or stress? How about having more energy when you happy or excited?

Don’t deny the emotions you are going through. Denying them does not make them go away. They need an outlet. If you try to suppress them, instead of going away, your body absorbs them and in trying to get your attention, can cause some very unpleasant side effects. We were given emotions for a reason, and we can learn from them and they can help us in many ways. So we need to not suppress or deny our emotions, but work through them, learn from them and don’t let them take over our minds or bodies.

Now, with that being said, there is a RIGHT and a WRONG way to express negative emotions. We can make things worse or bring others down with us when we react wrongly. Here are some GOOD ways we can work through those emotions that wreak havoc on us:

  • Pray and read 
  • Talk it out
  • Exercise
  • Music (Pounding The Imperial March on the piano is actually a fun way to release stress and frustration/anger ;P )
  • Eat good food
  • Get out in nature
  • Hold your loved ones 
  • Love on pets and animals
  • Take some deep breaths (of fresh air, whenever you can)

How Does Human Interaction Help?

Everyone feels alone from time to time. But a constant feeling of loneliness and isolation can actually take a serious toll on our health. Even the most introverted individual needs some human interaction and can benefit from social interaction.

Loneliness has been found to increase blood pressure and stress hormones…which can seriously hurt your…heart! (Go figure that one!)

Symptoms of loneliness include:

  • Overwhelming feeling of social isolation, even when you aren’t alone
  • Feeling disengaged and alienated
  • Inability to connect with people on a deep, intimate level
  • Not having any “best” or close friends
  • Feeling like no one really “gets” or understands you
  • Feeling worthless and emotionally drained

These feelings of loneliness can do a number on your body.  It can lead to fatigue, trouble sleeping, weight gain, inflammation and a weakened immune system. If left unchecked, it is easy for it to lead to depression and a lot of other medical concerns.

While it is not always the case, loneliness can be more common among people:

  • living alone
  • being unmarried (single, divorced or widowed)
  • not participating in social groups
  • having few friends
  • having strained relationships
  • people struggling with substance use, depression and dementia are also at a greater risk of chronic loneliness

This does not mean that all people in these situations are guaranteed to suffer from loneliness a lot, but it does go to show just how much of a positive influence human interaction can have on each and every person. God created people for each other, for our good health. Everyone benefits, and even NEEDS, the right kind of socializing from the people they love from time to time. (Yes, this even applies to the BIGGEST introvert on the planet 😉 ).

 

We need to LISTEN to our emotions. They have “words to say”…but they aren’t meant to overtake healthy/wise decisions. While they are not to control us, we are by no means to ignore them or never try to focus on their health just as we do our body’s.

 

How can we help stay in good emotional health? While it can never be perfect, there are are ways to make it better when you are going through an emotional down:

Diet – Don’t underestimate the power of healthy foods! We all know foods can hurt or help our minds, and they can affect our emotions, too. Eat the foods that feed your mind in a healthy manner…and don’t bring harm to the rest of your body.

Exercise – Get your heart pumping and your blood moving. It can clear the mind and get those positive emotions awake.

People – Do NOT forsake the company of others: family, friends… Be around the people you love, those that care about you and bring you comfort and make you happy. Hold them close, have fun and laugh with them, make memories. It truly does make a difference.

Scriptures and Worship – I have found that focusing on God and His word helps tremendously in shrinking those negative emotions and their hold on me. You can find a Psalm for just about any emotion (David went through a lot of them…). Maybe sing a song or two. Music lifts the spirit.

 

 

Ways to Have Fun When Stuck at Home!

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While I know it can be hard to be stuck at home (especially with summer approaching) and nowhere to go, nothing to do…it doesn’t have to be boring! Here are 15 ideas for you to spend the long hours you are cooped up…and make them not so long, WHILE also feeling productive!

  1. Cook – Make some of your favorite foods OR try out that NEW recipe you have been waiting for the right time to use.
  2. DIY Craft Projects – We all have them lying around somewhere…and it does make you feel really productive to get it accomplished, finally.
  3. Spring Cleaning/Organizing
  4. Read a Book – Take away some stress and cabin fever by losing yourself in a good story. There are so many good ones out there!
  5. Exercise – You know that excuse “I don’t have time”? Yeah, not really valid here.
  6. Diet – See above… 😉
  7. Learn an Instrument – Dust off that family piano! 😛
  8. Family Games
  9. Puzzles
  10. Coloring Books
  11. Plant a Garden – Springtime! New beginnings, beauty blossoms, moods boost. You can start your own! It is actually VERY satisfying to watch things grow. 🙂
  12. Go for a Walk (Get OUTSIDE!!!) – Vitamin D…good for your mood AND immune system. Win Win!
  13. Prayer  – This is a great time (when you have nothing but time) to lift up our nation and neighbors in prayer
  14. Epsom Salt Bath – You now have some time to relax. You can take advantage of that. Your body will thank you. It’s good for stress, muscles, and mood.
  15. Detox – While all canned food and boxed goods are hard to find, now is a good time to take advantage of all the fruits and veggies that are well stocked.